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Champions Are Made Here.


Most husbands are killing it at work, but struggling in their marriages. They’re treated with respect and appreciation at the office, but disdain at home. 40 hours a week they feel competentThe other 128 they feel frustrated, fed up, and even a little lost.


“I don’t get it! No matter what I do — no matter how hard I try — it’s never enough! She’s never happy!”


That broken record played in my head for many years.

Hi, I’m Jeff, marriage crisis coach and author of the bestselling book
Wife Magnet.

I teach love-starved husbands how to move their marriages from cold-and-distant to close-and-intimate. From “We can’t stand the sight of each other” to, as one client said, “We can't keep our hands off each other!

That statement is from a successful executive whose wife left him after 12 years. He found me, began practicing our 7 Core Commitments, and won her heart back. Notice what I didn’t say: I didn’t say he guilted her into coming home. I said he won her heart back. H-u-u-g-e difference. She fell madly in love with the same guy she had loathed and left just a few months earlier.

Why should your story be any different?

You’re not a failure.


You just need a new strategy.

Because the one that’s currently in place — you wait for her to change, she waits for you to change — ain’t working. Never has, actually. Not in any marriage. The only thing that does work is when one spouse is willing to break the cycle and do what’s never been done before.

That’s you.

Write a new story


Your future is already written. It’s called your default future. It’s where you’ll end up if nothing changes. Ask yourself: “What will my life be like a year from now — ten years from now — if nothing changes?”

Coaching creates change. It creates tiny shifts in perspective that transform us. It creates ripples that reach into our future and rewrite it.

I wish my book alone would radically transform men and their marriages. In rare cases it does. But transformation doesn't happen in one sitting. Lasting change — the kind that impacts a family for generations — requires something more. It requires hunger and humility and grit. It also requires the help of a mentor or coach.

Michael Jordan had a personal coach. Michael Phelps had one. Tom Brady has one. Hugh Jackman and Leonardo DiCaprio have one. So do billionaires Bill Gates, Elon Musk, and Eric Schmidt.

“The best advice I ever got was to hire a coach."
 (Eric Schmidt)


Coaching is how the best get better.


Your transformation awaits


I don’t do Band-Aids. I don’t do quick fixes. If that’s what you’re looking for, I’m not your guy. But if you’re ready to be stretched beyond your current capacity...if you’re ready to evolve...if you’re ready to learn and grow and get your mojo back, here's my advice: Take one step in the right direction today. Not 10 steps, not 20 steps, but one step toward a new outcome. One step toward bringing sexy back.


It won't happen any other way.

“If you don't change direction, you'll end up where you're heading.”
(Lao Tzu)

I know what it's like to be stuck. I know what it’s like to lose everything. I also know what it’s like to get up off the ground, leave the herd, and build the life you want. Sounds impressive, but I didn't do it alone. I had coaches who were instrumental in my transformation. 

That brings us to you.


I've been at this for over 20 years and have helped thousands of men blaze a new trail. I’ll help you get really clear on why your wife is cold and dismissive. Why she’s pulling away. (It’s not what you think.) I’ll teach you how to win her heart back. How to build a strong and sexy marriageHow to become the kind of husband she adores, respects, and wants to wrap her legs around.

Your window is closing


There's something I desperately need you to understand! (If I was there, I'd grab you by the shoulders, look you straight in the eye, and shake you a little bit.) Here it is:

You only have a small window of time from the moment she says, “Maybe this marriage was a mistake,” or “I think we should get a divorce,” to the moment she’s gone for good.

The Buddha said, “You think you have time.”

You think you have more time than you actually have. I fell into the same trap! By the time I took action, my grace period had expired.

Most of us don’t realize that the little signs we see — our wives pulling away emotionally and then sexually — are just the tip of a very large iceberg. Disaster is coming ... unless we change course.

I did everything wrong during my small window of time, and it cost me dearly. Don’t make the same mistakes I made! If your wife isn’t softening, what you’re doing isn’t working! Like I did, you’re only pushing her further and further away.

What you do during this small window of time is critical! What you do today matters more than ever!

You have one chance to get it right.

Don't squander it! Don't take a passive wait-and-see approach like I did! Book your free consultation, and we’ll begin writing a new story for you and your family. No strings, no gimmicks, nothing salesy. We’re either a good fit or we’re not. You might take one look at our 7 Core Commitments and think, “Damn, I’m not up for this!

That’s OK — I’m not for everyone.

But at least you’re moving! At least you’re taking action! That’s more than most men do. Remember, you will never get this window of time back.

Abraham Maslow said, “In any given moment, we have two options: Step forward into growth or step backward into safety.”

It’s your turn to step forward and grow. It’s your turn to break the cycle. It’s your turn to have a marriage that’s sexy and fun and intimate.

It won’t happen overnight.

But it begins today.

It begins with you taking a step forward and clicking the button below.

Your wife will thank you. Your children will thank you. Your future self will thank you!

I look forward to speaking with you.


Marriage Crisis Coach

Jeff is a passionate speaker and coach known for his obsession with helping men build strong and sexy marriages. He's a full-time dad, outdoor enthusiast, and raving fan of all things kombucha. When he's not oversharing on Facebook, you can find him in the mountains, the ocean, or Whole Foods.

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With Jeff’s help, my wife and I are closer as a couple and more intimate than we’ve ever been.


​MATT TAYLOR

​​​​Grammy Award-Winning Art Director @ Varnish Studio


To the wife who feels alone in her marriage:

This isn't OK. You're turning into a stone. You've had to stop caring when he looks at you, smiles at you, or says something kind. You've had to accept the reality of being invisible so it won't hurt so much.


How much longer can you do this?!


I have great news — Filing for divorce and fracturing your family isn't the only other option. I have a proven strategy to transform your current marriage into one that's sexy, fun, close, and intimate!


Click the button below to learn more.


Most husbands are killing it at work, but struggling in their marriages. They’re treated with respect and appreciation at the office, but disdain at home. 40 hours a week they feel competentThe other 128 they feel frustrated, fed up, and even a little lost.


“I don’t get it! No matter what I do — no matter how hard I try — it’s never enough! She’s never happy!”


That broken record played in my head for many years.

Hi, I’m Jeff, marriage crisis coach and author of the bestselling book
Wife Magnet.

I teach love-starved husbands how to move their marriages from cold-and-distant to close-and-intimate. From “We can’t stand the sight of each other” to, as one client said, “We can't keep our hands off each other!

That statement is from a successful executive whose wife left him after 12 years. He found me, began practicing our 7 Core Commitments, and won her heart back. Notice what I didn’t say: I didn’t say he guilted her into coming home. I said he won her heart back. H-u-u-g-e difference. She fell madly in love with the same guy she had loathed and left just a few months earlier.

Why should your story be any different?

You’re not a failure.


You just need a new strategy.

Because the one that’s currently in place — you wait for her to change, she waits for you to change — ain’t working. Never has, actually. Not in any marriage. The only thing that does work is when one spouse is willing to break the cycle and do what’s never been done before.

That’s you.

​​​​Write a new story


Your future is already written. It’s called your default future. It’s where you’ll end up if nothing changes. Ask yourself: “What will my life be like a year from now — ten years from now — if nothing changes?”


Coaching creates change. It creates tiny shifts in perspective that transform us. It creates ripples that reach into our future and rewrite it.


I wish my book alone would radically transform men and their marriages. In rare cases it does. But transformation doesn't happen in one sitting. Lasting change — the kind that impacts a family for generations — requires something more. It requires hunger and humility and grit. It also requires the help of a mentor or coach.


Michael Jordan had a personal coach. Michael Phelps had one. Tom Brady has one. Hugh Jackman and Leonardo DiCaprio have one. So do billionaires Bill Gates, Elon Musk, and Eric Schmidt.


“The best advice I ever got was to hire a coach.” (Eric Schmidt)


Coaching is how the best get better.


Your transformation awaits


I don’t do Band-Aids. I don’t do quick fixes. If that’s what you’re looking for, I’m not your guy. But if you’re ready to be stretched beyond your current capacity...if you’re ready to evolve...if you’re ready to learn and grow and get your mojo back, here's my advice: Take one step in the right direction today. Not 10 steps, not 20 steps, but one step toward a new outcome. One step toward bringing sexy back.


It won't happen any other way.


“If you don't change direction, you'll end up where you're heading.” (Lao Tzu)


I know what it's like to be stuck. I know what it’s like to lose everything. I also know what it’s like to get up off the ground, leave the herd, and build the life you want. Sounds impressive, but I didn't do it alone. I had coaches who were instrumental in my transformation. 


That brings us to you.


I've been at this for over 20 years and have helped thousands of men blaze a new trail. I’ll help you get really clear on why your wife is cold and dismissive. Why she’s pulling away. (It’s not what you think.) I’ll teach you how to win her heart back. How to build a strong and sexy marriageHow to become the kind of husband she adores, respects, and wants to wrap her legs around. 

Your window is closing


There's something I desperately need you to understand! (If I was there, I'd grab you by the shoulders, look you straight in the eye, and shake you a little bit.) Here it is:


You only have a small window of time from the moment she says, “Maybe this marriage was a mistake,” or “I think we should get a divorce,” to the moment she’s gone for good.

The Buddha said, “You think you have time.”

You think you have more time than you actually have. I fell into the same trap! By the time I took action, my grace period had expired.


Most of us don’t realize that the little signs we see — our wives pulling away emotionally and then sexually — are just the tip of a very large iceberg. Disaster is coming ... unless we change course.


I did everything wrong during my small window of time, and it cost me dearly. Don’t make the same mistakes I made. If your wife isn’t softening, what you’re doing isn’t working! Like I did, you’re only pushing her further and further away.


What you do during this small window of time is critical! What you do today matters more than ever!


You have one chance to get it right.


Don't squander it! Don't take a passive wait-and-see approach like I did! Book your free consultation, and we’ll begin writing a new story for you and your family. No strings, no gimmicks, nothing salesy. We’re either a good fit or we’re not. You might take one look at our 7 Core Commitments and think, “Damn, I’m not up for this!

That’s OK — I’m not for everyone. 

But at least you’re moving! At least you’re taking action! That’s more than most men do. Remember, you will never get this window of time back.


Abraham Maslow said, “In any given moment, we have two options: Step forward into growth or step backward into safety.”

It’s your turn to step forward and grow. It’s your turn to break the cycle. 
It’s your turn to have a marriage that’s sexy and fun and intimate.


It won’t happen overnight.

But it begins today.

It begins with you taking a step forward and clicking the button below.


Your wife will thank you. Your children will thank you. Your future self will thank you!

I look forward to speaking with you.

Their stories could have ended much differently

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A year ago, my marriage was on the verge of ruin, and I had no idea how to fix it. Jeff was an absolute godsend. My marriage didn’t get better overnight — that took many months — but I was on the road to restoration after our first phone call. There were stretches when we spoke 4-5 times a week (including several crisis calls). I hung up each time thinking, ‘That’s exactly what we need right now.’ With Jeff’s help, my wife and I are closer as a couple and more intimate than we’ve ever been. After 15 years of marriage, I didn’t think this was possible.

MATT TAYLOR

Grammy Award-Winning Art Director @ Varnish Studio

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Wife Magnet got my attention in a huge way. I was that husband on the hamster wheel — busy and successful at work, but mostly absent at home. By the time I called Jeff, my wife had both feet out the door, and sadly, our marriage didn’t survive. Thankfully, I did! Jeff helped me navigate through the darkest and most difficult season of my life. He was the coach and friend I needed. Today, life is very different. I’m engaged to be married and enjoy a thriving relationship with my wife-to-be. I’m a changed man because of Jeff’s insight and guidance.

JASON LAASE

Police Officer and GM @ Forward Movement Training

Interested in working with me?

I tend to work with clients in three ways

1

Individual
Sessions


You're stuck and need help with one specific issue. We attack it together.


(Typically 3-6 Sessions)

2

Monthly
Intensive


You want out of the frying pan, and you're committed to world-class. We go deep.


(Typically 3-6 Months)

3

Weekend
Immersion


Imagine moving to France to learn French. This is like that. I fly in for the weekend.


(Typically 1-3 Weekends)

Book your free consultation

"Nothing changes in my life unless I change." (Jeff)


To the wife who feels alone in her marriage:

This isn't OK. You're turning into a stone. You've had to stop caring when he looks at you, smiles at you, or says something kind. You've had to accept the reality of being invisible so it won't hurt so much.


How much longer can you do this?!


I have great news — Filing for divorce and fracturing your family isn't the only other option. I have a proven strategy to transform your current marriage into one that's sexy, fun, close, and intimate!


Click the button below to learn more.


Marriage Crisis Coach

Jeff is a passionate speaker and coach known for his obsession with helping men build strong and sexy marriages. He's a full-time dad, outdoor enthusiast, and raving fan of all things kombucha. When he's not oversharing on Facebook, you can find him in the mountains, the ocean, or Whole Foods.

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