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Reignite Attraction & Intimacy
Marriage must constantly fight against a monster which devours everything: routine. (Honoré de Balzac)
Routine (Autopilot) cripples intimacy. It turns soulmates into roommates. Think about it ... No one destroys their marriage on purpose. Marriages are destroyed for one simple reason: We neglect them. We don’t decide to never plan another date night, we just decide to plan the next one soon. That’s what Autopilot does. It keeps us slaves to the urgent. One day we’ll get around to the things that matter. Just not today.
These conversation-starters will keep your relationship fresh and moving forward. Direct 1-2 of them toward your wife over coffee or cocktails to keep Autopilot in check. To get your marriage out of the rut it’s in. To reignite feelings of attraction, passion, and desire — like the early days! (22 pages)
Become a Man Worth Following
Your mission is your priority. Unless you know your mission and have aligned your life to it, your masculine core will feel empty. Your presence in the world will be weakened, as will your presence with your intimate partner. (David Deida)
Every man needs a battle to fight. Do you know yours? You’ll stay weak and wife-centric until you do. Knowing your mission makes you a man worth following, especially in the eyes of your wife. Emily Freeman famously said, “There’s nothing more attractive than a man on a mission.”
This ebook will help you get off the hamster wheel, find your mission, and live your mission. It’s the most important thing I’ve ever written. (19 pages)
Always Know What to Say
More than 80% of the time it’s the wife who brings up sticky marital issues, while the husband tries to avoid discussing them. (John Gottman)
Nothing does more damage to a relationship than avoidance. Then why?! Why do we avoid hard conversations?! That’s easy: Because we suck at them. And we know it. The fight is lost before we enter the ring.
This ebook contains over 35 word-for-word scripts written for my executive clients. Now they’re yours! Examples include: What to say when she won’t let go of past hurts and What to say when you want to reintroduce sex. Don’t be Avoidant Guy. Use my proven scripts and show up as Confident Leader instead. (48 pages)
Varnish
A year ago, my marriage was on the verge of ruin, and I had no idea how to fix it. Jeff was an absolute godsend. My marriage didn’t get better overnight — that took many months — but I was on the road to restoration after our first phone call. With Jeff’s help, my wife and I are closer as a couple and more intimate than we’ve ever been. After 15 years of marriage, I didn’t think this was possible.
Varnish | Grammy Award-Winning Art Director
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Jeff was a Guest on Man For Real Podcast (3/26/26)
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